The First Birthday Is Really for the Parents
Let's be honest: your one-year-old will not remember this party. The first birthday is a celebration of survival, love, and the incredible first year of parenthood. Plan something that makes you happy and creates memories your family will treasure.
Timing Matters
Schedule the party around your baby's best time of day, which for most one-year-olds is mid-morning. A 10am start allows time for activities and cake before the afternoon nap. Keep the party to two hours maximum. Tired babies and toddlers make for difficult celebrations.
Guest List Considerations
Keep the guest list manageable. A crowd of unfamiliar faces can overwhelm a one-year-old. Close family and friends with similarly aged children works best. Consider the ratio of adults to children and plan accordingly for seating and food.
Food for Tiny Guests and Adults
- Soft finger foods for babies and toddlers
- Allergen-aware snacks (check with parents first)
- A smash cake for the birthday baby (a small cake just for them)
- A separate cake or cupcakes for adult guests
- Simple platters: fruit, sandwiches, and savoury bites
The Smash Cake Moment
The smash cake is the highlight of any first birthday. Place baby in a highchair, put the small cake in front of them, and let the camera roll. Some babies dive right in, others are cautious. Either reaction makes for adorable photos.
Keep It Simple
Resist the urge to over-plan. Simple decorations, a few balloons, and good company are all you need. The best first birthday parties are relaxed gatherings where parents can enjoy the moment rather than stressing about logistics.